tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38378367167927088722024-03-06T08:34:34.198+13:00Mr. WainscottingQuasi-intellectual ramblings of someone who considers himself a quasi-intellectual. Has a tendency to become rather cynical when confronted with politics.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-64212544550728517242011-04-18T23:49:00.001+12:002011-04-18T23:50:20.169+12:00Off to blog somewhere else...My sporadic blogging here is about to become more frequent blogging somewhere else. I'm off to blog at Missing Sparkles. There's more than just me, there's a group of us, all wonderfully blogging about queer issues and things, as well as periodically lapsing into pop culture and entertainment.<br />
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I may still blog here sporadically when I need to rant...Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-58639853858668976342011-02-24T02:04:00.000+13:002011-02-24T02:04:01.899+13:00A Recent ConversationI was chatting with a friend of mine today, when the topic of The Rock FM's "Win A <strike>Wife</strike> Trip To Beautiful Ukraine For 12 Nights And Meet Eastern European Hot Lady Who Maybe One Day You Marry" competition came up. We laughed at the stupid dick "Mclovin" who was named as the 1<sup>st</sup> finalist, and at what the number one thing he looks for in a lady: "Washing Iron F^&*(ing Etc)”<br />
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After having a bit of a chuckle at his expense, my friend (40s, woman, divorcée) and I had the following conversation:<br />
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<blockquote><b>Her:</b> "I don't know what qualaties I'd look for in a man. I honestly can't say."<br />
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<b>Me:</b> "How about someone who is proud to see you as an equal."<br />
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<b>Her:</b> ♥</blockquote>Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-30917888501512188472011-02-07T21:18:00.000+13:002011-02-07T21:18:40.923+13:00New Zealand DayWaitangi Day has once again rolled past in New Zealand, and once again there were protests and controversy and what not...<br />
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All these things have once again renewed Peter Dunn's call to rename it "New Zealand Day" - this time creating a separate day, instead of just renaming it.<br />
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Of course, that'll work! Instead of addressing the underlying racial tensions, and trying to make a move towards an understanding of our history and creating a country in which our native population are able to participate on an equal footing, let's just sweep that all under the carpet by renaming the day, taking the Maoriness out of it.<br />
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You don't fix the fundamental racial issues facing a nation by giving the national day a European name so whitey can pretend that everything's alright. Fixing things is difficult, it takes time and it forces us to look in the mirror and admit to ourselves that, maybe, we could try being a little less racist.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-38427302038796692512011-02-02T01:30:00.000+13:002011-02-02T01:30:41.804+13:00Gotta love me some privilege<blockquote>"I'm all for [minority] rights, but [minority issue] is hardly pressing, so I don't see why [small group of people] need to worry about it right now."</blockquote><br />
In a fantastic case of not-getting-it, I read a stream of comments to that effect on a Facebook page organising a protest to draw attention to the non-binary nature of gender, by <a href="http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=180330072000807">ticking both boxes on the next New Zealand census</a>.<br />
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Apparently, we should only care about issues that are immediately pressing. If we took that attitude, then minority issues would never be brought up. We would still find homosexuality illegal and women would still predominantly be found in the kitchen.<br />
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It's a similar thing as what was said to me by a local politician in the Open Labout project. Open Labour was about allowing the people to suggest policies that the Labour Party should push, with the intention of allowing citizens an active part in the process of government policy making. This is something I agree with; democracy should be open to all people and not just in picking who gets to make the decisions once every three years.<br />
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I suggested that Labour adopt a policy to allow same sex marriage. Yes, we have civil unions, but equivalence is not equality and don't very much like being treated like a second class citizen, and all that. My suggestion got a lot of attention, and most of the responses were positive. But then, Clare Curran commented, "that's not really the point in [Open Labour]." What? Then what <i>is </i>the point? What's the point in asking for <i>the people</i> to suggest policy that's important to them, if you dismiss suggestions that aren't important to <i>you</i>?<br />
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Privilege is an annoying thing for those who don't have it, and those that do have it seem hell bent on denying it. So what if the issue isn't pressing (on the majority of people)? That's not the point, and it's certainly not relevent. The point is that we have an imperitive on being consistent on human rights and doing all that we can to ensure that all people have the ability to participate freely in our society without having to worry about artificial blockades we put up, whether it's by prohibiting them from marrying whom they love, or not including options that describe them on the census.<br />
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It's not relevant because we deal with non-pressing issues every day, and we are more than capable of dealing with many issues simultaneously.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-20629010387732904192011-01-31T00:05:00.001+13:002011-01-31T00:14:54.937+13:00"Proving he's a typical [chauvinist pig]"Four different people managed to piss me off in one single <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/sunday-news/news/4597545/John-Keys-celebrity-crushes">news article.</a><br />
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John Key appeared on the radio programme of convicted woman beater, Tony Veitch. Now, I believe in second chances, and think criminals should be given a fresh start after they've finished their sentence. But here is a man who was convicted of breaking his girlfriend's back, sitting down with the Prime Minister, objectifying women by discussing the top three Key thinks are hot (his wife being notably absent).<br />
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I expect more of the leader of our country than pining after Tiger Wood's life of money and affairs.<br />
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Expectedly, a number of women, Sue Kedgley included, were a little peeved at this. But fear not, fellow penis wielders! Dean Lonergan is here to put them in their place:<br />
<blockquote>"John Key is a strong leader and a very good family man." <br />
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"Those women who might be upset at his comments are obviously just disappointed they never made John Key's list and never will."<br />
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"He's a normal man who expresses normal manly sentiments from time to time."</blockquote>Normal manly sentiments like ranking women on their hotness, because they're only here for us red-blooded men to look at? These kind of statements are so infuriating. If that's what it takes to be a "very good family man," then I'm glad I'm not one. I'm sure fact that she didn't make the list is the core of Kedgley's complaints.<br />
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But the fourth person to piss me off in this article, was the journalist, Neil Reid. He caused me the most consternation with the simple phrase "Proving he's a typical Kiwi bloke..."<br />
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This was an article about the controversy surrounding chauvinistic statements by this country's leader and Reid opens by normalising his comments, passing them off as "typical." The journalist, who is supposed to take an unbiased position, by opening with a suggestion that the PM's comments are typical of New Zealand men, is directly implying that the ensuing complaints are unwarrented.<br />
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No wonder Anna Faris wasn't happy with her visit to New Zealand.<br />
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Key, in his State of the Nation speech, said that National would sell off 49% of the state-owned energy companies to pay for rising national debt, retaining controlling interest for the government.<br />
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On the practical side, I understand that energy companies earned the government around $700 million last year. This goes into the state coffers where it's used to help pay for things like healthcare and education. If the government sells off half of the shares in the companies, that would slash the revenue that the government can take. That will mean we'd have to find more money from other sources to pay for important things that we're already not providing enough funding for.<br />
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Selling the assets would mean a one off cash boost to the government, but after a few years, the reduced income would negate that.<br />
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We were in debt a couple of years ago, and John Key cut tax for the rich, claiming it would help boost the economy, apparently still believing that the trickle down theory actually has merit. That, or he was lying through his insidious smile. Either way, fit for leadership that does not one make.<br />
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Yoda-esque sentences aside, the cuts were supposed to be balanced out by the increase in GST. It's incredibly naïve to think that a tax on consumption would work in a time when consumption is low.<br />
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So we ended up in more debt, of Key and Bill English's construction, which they claim will be solved with a quick state-asset sale.<br />
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On the ideological side of my argument, energy companies are part of our core infrastructure. They belong to all of us. Key said that "mum and dad" investors (I abhor that term on so many levels) would be better off if they could buy shares in the companies. When CLive pointed out that "mum and dad" already own shares with them being state owned (as do the rest of us non "mum and dad"s), Key merrily said, "Yes, and now thay can buy their own shares in it! ^_^" <span style="font-size: large;">*</span><br />
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"Mum and dad" investors are not going to be better off - wealthy, private interests are. Foreign investors are going to go for their slice of the pie too (even though they have to stand at the back of the queue, NZ investors would be given first dibs).<br />
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Electricity companies are fundamentally <span data-jsid="text"><span class="text_exposed_show"> important to the running of our nation. Power generation should belong to all the people and not be subjected to the whims of private owners. Just because the government holds controlling interest, giving them the power of veto in certain decisions, it doesn't mean that the other 49% don't have any sway. They have a lot of sway.</span></span><br />
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<span data-jsid="text"><span class="text_exposed_show">I shouldn't keep saying that these companies are owned by the government, that makes people miss the point. These companies are owned by <i>us</i> - the citizens of New Zealand. <i>We</i> should be the ones who control them. A small group of politicians should keep their grubby paws off them.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">* I'm paraphrasing a little.</span>Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-46119138201147174602010-12-24T18:38:00.001+13:002010-12-24T18:45:36.607+13:00Just because I have a penis, doesn't mean I want powertools for ChristmasI get sick of all the advertising on television, pandering to stereotypes and 1950's, Stepford wife, bullshit. The same thing happens on Mother's and Father's Days. All men want for Christmas, apparently, is tools and car stuff. Women, on the other hand, will be content with pot-plants and spiritual books, according to the advertising they keep hammering in our faces.<br />
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As I mentioned in one of my <a href="http://mrwainscotting.blogspot.com/2009/12/is-it-just-me-or-is-christmas-coming-up.html">earliest posts</a>, I'm not the biggest fan of Christmas. What gets me the most about it is that all the stores and malls suddenly become tacky vomitoria of hideous, cheap, plastic, brightly coloured crap. While that annoys me, however, what I find the most insidious, is the aforementioned advertising.<br />
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I don't want to read rugby players autobiographies as if their vapid lives have any remotely interesting aspects worthy of printing in ink. I don't want jerseys with car logos on them as if affiliating yourself with either Ford or Holden somehow made you a better person (note: it doesn't, it makes you worse). I have no use for powertools or car stuff. Yet in spite of this, I'm still a man.<br />
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How about, instead of looking for "Gifts for Girls" or "Gifts for Boys," we instead just look for Gifts for People. If you're going to tailor a gift for someone, you should at least try to be a little more specific about who they are than just judging based on what they happen to keep in their pants.<br />
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<i>Not Christmas gifts advertising, but here's a take on gender-based advertising in general:</i><br />
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So either I'll fade into obscurity, or I'll start posting inane ramblings. Find out after the break...Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-41505609864384250722010-11-08T17:33:00.001+13:002010-11-08T22:26:26.493+13:00Depression is lame and stuff<blockquote><span style="font-size: large;">“</span><span style="font-size: large;">Do you know what really sucks? Everything.”</span><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><i>- Scott Pilgrim</i></div></blockquote>OK, so everything sucked for Scott because he had girl trouble, but he pretty much sums up how I feel at the moment. Depression sucks. It really does, and it makes everything else suck.<br />
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It saps your motivation, makes you tired and grumpy, and makes everything you do feel like a failure. It's like there's a voice in your head telling you how much everything sucks. Whenever you attempt to do anything - especially if it's important - that voice is there telling you that trying is pointless because you're not going to succeed at what you're doing, and therefore, will fail at life forever.<br />
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That's not a silly exaggeration - that's literally how I feel when I attempt to do my work. It's really hard to maintain motivation when the part of my brain that I need to do my work, is being used by my depression to tell me that there's no point in doing any of the work, because I'm never going to get it finished to any kind of acceptable level. It's annoyingly circular, it makes your life feel like one big clusterfuck, and if left unchecked, will spiral out of control until your whole life collapses into a catastrofuck - kind of like what a neutron star goes through - except neutron stars are awesome and depression isn't.<br />
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A lot of people don't seem to understand depression. They often tell me to 'cheer up' or 'get over it,' or worse, they point me to a self help book which spends a whole chapter telling me that I just need to smile - Oh right! That's my problem! It's got nothing to do with the ability of the neurons in my brain to transport serotonin*, I just need to smile!†<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">* I'm not a neuroscientist - that's just what I got from a cursory glance of Wikipedia.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">† That book is real, by the way. I can't remember what it's called, and I'm not going to give the author the dignity of looking it up, but it was, by far, the most patronising opening chapter I've ever read. Seriously, Self Help books are a waste of time and money.</span><br />
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It doesn't work like that (well, not for depression strong enough for a doctor to tell you that you have depression. Everyone gets in a bit of a 'blue funk' from time to time). You can't 'cheer up,' you can't 'get over it' and you certainly can't just fake a smile and pretend that it will trick your brain into thinking you're happy. Because you're not happy, and the suckiest thing is that you can't explain why.<br />
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In my <a href="http://mrwainscotting.blogspot.com/2010/10/it-gets-better-but-it-needs-help.html">last post</a>, I wrote about my struggle with depression due to living in a homophobic world, and ended by saying that <a href="http://www.itgetsbetterproject.com/">It Gets Better</a>. But it's not just homophobia that makes me depressed - I am clinically depressed, and though it hasn't affected me very much over the past few years, it's coming back right now with a vengeance - right at the time when I most need my motivation and a clear head. Clinical depression doesn't go away and recent studies have suggested that anti-depressants aren't as effective as once thought. How can I tell young LGBT kids that "It Gets Better" when, right now, I feel like it never will?<br />
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The trouble is, we always want to strive for perfection. We want to be perfectly happy, without a care in our perfect world. But in reality, we have to set our sights a little lower. "Perfect" is unattainable. We have, instead, to set our sights on "good enough." My depression will never go away, I will have to battle it again and again. You can't escape it. For me, there are long periods of what can be approximated as "almost-normalcy" punctuated by periods of depression. For me, "almost-normalcy" is as good as it gets, but that's OK, as I don't really want anything too saccharin.<br />
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But it <i>does</i> get better - I have to fight and fight against an unknowable force using the very tools it's using against me. It's an uphill battle and it's hard and it usually strikes when you least want it to - when you're under stress or work pressure; when it has it's most deleterious effects - but it does still get better. It's taken me years to train myself to remember that. I'm not on medication now, haven't been for a few years, because I've trained myself on how to notice depression sneaking up and how to deal with it when it does, and the solutions are as individual as the person it affects. But that doesn't mean that I can just turn it off like a switch. I still have to fight it - every minute of every day - until it goes away. And it doesn't just take a day or two, it can linger for weeks or months - sometimes even years.<br />
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So I can't despair (even though that's what my brain is trying to make me do), I just have to plod along and do what I can to fight it: enjoy the sun, listen to good music, eat good food - and take solace in the fact that it will get better, but it's not easy. It's not something I can run away from or protest or accuse of bigotry. I've got to slog away at it until it's over. Even though it's the loudest voice in my head, I've got to ignore it, and I've got to shout over it to get anything done. If shouting math equations over an obnoxious emo in your head sounds like a bit of fun, then you should try depression too. But for me, it's not fun (OK, visualising and personifying it, is fun, but I digress...), it's a necessity.<br />
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Depression's a bitch, and if you don't nip it in the bud, it'll make you it's bitch. Talk to your friends (friends love it when you bitch about stuff at them), or a counciller, or a doctor or anyone who can help, and get yourself on the right track to mitigating it (you can't "cure" it). It's not easy, but with a little effort, it <i>will</i> get better.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-14478752633225778332010-10-31T03:56:00.001+13:002010-10-31T12:22:45.906+13:00It gets better - but it needs helpThere's two things going on at the moment, mostly in the US, but it's also spilling over here too. The first is that there have been a string of young, queer people who have killed themselves due to the constant bullying that they receive for their particular shade of different. Whether this is something that has recently reached a crescendo or that it's rather that the mainstream is just starting to pay attention, doesn't matter - it's starting to get the attention it requires.<br />
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The second is the response. Celebrities across the US are posting videos online and giving speeches on their talk shows telling same-sex attracted youth that it gets better, that life is worth living, and pleading with the everyone to end the homophobic and transphobic bullying. The latest trend started when Dan Savage posted a video titled <a href="http://www.youtube.com/itgetsbetterproject">It Gets Better</a>, with a number of celebrities, including <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_B-hVWQnjjM">Ellen DeGeneres</a> contributing to the project. I must say that I am impressed by this - usually the mainstream media don't like talking so frankly about queer issues, preferring to sit on the "balanced" sidelines.<br />
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I am absolutely thrilled that this is happening, but I'm worried that as soon as the novelty wears off, we'll find something else to worry about, and the abuse and the suicides will continue to happen.<br />
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In New Zealand, gay, lesbian and bi youth are three times more likely than their straight counterparts to be bullied for being gay, or being thought of as gay. I'm not sure what the stats are like in other countries, but from what I understand that it doesn't get much better.<br />
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There is a reason that young queer people are being singled out and bullied, and it goes quite a bit beyond general schoolyard meanness. As a teenager at school, you're pretty much guaranteed to be bullied if they don't fit into whichever clique is supposed to be popular. Nerds and geeks are classical fare, as are the fat kids, and those who are just arbitrarily deemed unpopular. But if you're labelled 'gay' - even if you're really not - then life can become a living hell. At school, I fell into all those categories.<br />
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There needs to be a lot more done to curb bullying in schools. A lot of the abuse is often just passed off as childhood and teenage meanness; we certainly wouldn't expect adults to act like that. But when homophobia and queerphobia gets involved it becomes much worse - who you love and who you find attractive become one of the most things in a teenagers life once puberty strikes, and coupled with the overwhelming desire to fit in and do and like the 'right' things, things can get very stressful for a young queer person even <i>before </i>you add bullying into the mix. Children and teenagers can be very cruel - I should know: I spent years being bullied and taunted everyday, including two years at a boarding school I couldn't escape, for having the audacity of being different in a way that was outside my control, and for not following the rules of that society which, to this day, I can't totally comprehend.<br />
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I think that there is a dangerous myth present here that knocks back efforts to curb school-yard bullying - that children are cruel, purely because children are cruel. I really don't think that is the case. Yes they can be blunt, yes they take time to learn about things like compassion and empathy. <a href="http://www.livescience.com/culture/10-facts-male-brains-100406-1.html">Male children</a> are learning how to establish hierarchies and pecking orders, in which they put others down. But I don't think that's enough to explain it all. Where do they get their ideas of how to be at the top of that pecking order? How do they know who to pick on; who's 'different'?<br />
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Adults.<br />
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Quite simple, really. No prizes for me. Some children might not have developed their empathy, but that doesn't mean that they're incapable of understanding it (children are capable of understanding <i>anything</i> if you explain it to them) and it is the duty of adults, especially parents and educators, to explain it to them. And it is also adults who spread most of the lies, misunderstandings and stereotypes about homosexuals and queer people.<br />
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<blockquote style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">“Being a fag doesnt <span style="font-family: inherit;">[sic]</span> give you the right to ruin the rest of our lives. If you get easily offended by being called a fag then dont tell anyone you are a fag. Keep that shit to yourself [...] I like that fags cant procreate. I also enjoy the fact that they often give each other aids and die. If you arent against it, you might as well be for it.”</blockquote>That from <a href="http://gayrights.change.org/blog/view/arkansas_school_board_member_says_gay_students_should_get_aids_and_die">Clint McCance,</a> a school board member in Arkansas in responce to students wearing purple in memory of - and to protest the homophobia that led to - the recent, high-profile cases of gay teenage suicide. Read that again: a<i> school board member</i>, i.e. a person who influences teenagers' education. There's currently a <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Fire-Clint-McCance/170421922968484">Facebook campaign</a> calling for him to be fired. Thanks to the fallout, McChance has since announced that he will resign from the school board. (Just as well, too - do we really want someone in charge of people's education when he can't seem to comprehend an apostrophy's role in contractions?)<br />
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Another person to not like <i>It Gets Better</i>, is a strange person called Mike Adams. In the interest of one-upping those annoying gay suicides, he <a href="http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/33523.html">decided to write</a> about the suicides of eight straight people due to "harassment" by homosexuals. The cases he cites are all real except for two subtle points. The first is that they couldn't really be counted as "harassment." One of his 'victims' had recommended a homophobic book for a freshman reading course as a library committee member, and another member filed a harassment complaint against him. Because of that complaint, the librarian took his own life. Except, as he admits at the end of his rant, he didn't. And that's the other point. None of his 'victims' took their own lives. Instead, they're mostly sueing the people who "harassed" them. <br />
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So, Adams - a <a href="http://www.uncw.edu/soccrm/Adams.html">college professor</a> - tried to out do a spate of teen suicides caused by horrific homophobic bullying by equating that abuse (which has included <a href="http://celebrifi.com/gossip/Baby-Gangsters-Kidnap-Beat-Torture-Gay-Men-in-The-Bronx-Hate-Crimes-3684253.html">kidnapping and torture</a>) with what mostly amounts to being called out for their bullshit, and then <i>not</i> committing suicide. Harassment is not being told you can't be a bigot. Harassment is being called a fag every other day. It is being spat on on the street. It's being told that you shouldn't be allowed to marry your partner. It's being accused of paedophilia and bestiality. It's being called a disease ridden whore. And not just being picked on by high-schoolers, but by entire churches and religious leaders, celebrities and politicians - all of these people demanding freedom of speech and religion to deny the rights of others, apparently without noticing the irony of their actions.<br />
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Fun fact: Adams is also a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Feminists-Say-Darndest-Things-Politically/dp/1595230424/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top">misogynist</a>.<br />
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So, what to do? First of all, we must remember that there is no arguable defence of homophobia and queerphobia. None. Is it a 'sin?' <a href="http://www.wouldjesusdiscriminate.com/?page_id=8">Nope</a>. Does it lead to paedophilia, rape and incest, or be kept away from children? <a href="http://www.livescience.com/culture/5-Myths-About-Gays-100510.html">Nope</a>. Is it 'unnatural' (however you qualify or measure that)? <a href="http://www.livescience.com/animals/gay-homosexual-animals-100820.html">Nope</a>. Being gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other shade of queer is no more wrong than being left-handed, or blond, or female, or black.<br />
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Next: be visible. Show people that it's not shameful to be queer. Be visible in your sexuality, or your acceptance of the differing sexualities. I know a lot of people don't want to do this for fear of precisely the things we are trying to fight, but we need to make ubiquitus the idea that being gay or lesbian or bisexual or trans or queer - being different - is completely normal* and acceptable.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">* Normal, as in an everyday, natural occurance, not as in statistically average. I am aware of how stupid that word it. </span><br />
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And finally, we need to discourage homophobia and queerphobia wherever we see it. When people say "that's so gay" or call someone they don't like a "homo," tell them that that's not alright. When someone says that gays can't raise children, ask for proof, and let them know that, according to research, children raised by lesbians fare better than those raised in heterosexual households. If they say that it's a 'sin' or that God forbids it, point out leviticus, along with prohibiting male <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=lev%2018:22&version=NIV">homosexual <i>acts</i></a>, also forbids the <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=lev%2011:10-11&version=KJV">eating of shellfish</a> (which also uses the term <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abomination_%28Bible%29"><i>abomination</i></a>), <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=lev%2019:27&version=NIV">shaving</a>, <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=lev%2019:19&version=NIV">vegetable gardens</a>, doing <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=lev%2023:3&version=NIV"><i>anything</i> on a Saturday</a>, and <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=lev%2015:20&version=NIV">mensturating women from sitting on chairs</a> - furthermore, there are stories of a lesbian couple and two gay couples.<br />
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Everyone needs to own this problem; both queer people and 'straight', but especially adults. It's time we got rid of homophobia and queerphobia, and all other forms of bigotry, once and for all. Oppose it whenever you witness it, and tell people that it's<i> not</i> OK.<br />
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To all those teachers, parents and caregivers, you need to go out of your way to loof for and discourage homophobic and queerphobic bullying. Yes, all bullying is bad and needs to be stopped, but for too long, bullying of young queer people has been largely ignored. It's your job to ensure that children and teenagers are raised in an environment free from persecution and harassment, and that they understand that they live in a diverse world with many different types of people, just trying to live as who and what they are, and that bigotry is unacceptable. <br />
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And to all those people, young people especially, who are being bullied and abused for being gay or being perceived as gay; for all those who are caught in a spiral of depression and are comtemplating suicide, know this: <i>It gets better</i>. You grow up. The arseholes go away. You can get away from it. You can do something about it. I've been there - I've been bullied, yelled at, called a 'faggot' and been tormented. When I was at Timaru Boys High School, as a boarder, I was in an inescapable cuccoon of hypermasculine homophobia. The prefects egged it on, and the housemasters cared more about not letting my parents think there was anything wrong with the hostel than whether I was alright. (It was at the boarding school, that I developed my keen disdain for hegemony, authoritarinism and also militarianism)<br />
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But I grew up. I was able to leave Timaru Boys† and, although Ashburton College (shut up) didn't fare much better in the homophobia department, I eventually left that too. I went to university - the bullies dropped out. Now, I'm the happiest I've ever been.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> † I have nothing against the school itself, except the rigid, Christian, superiority complex that I remember. It's the <i>boarding hostel</i>, Thomas House, or rather those that ran it at the time, that draws the attention of my ire.</span><br />
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Life gets better. Even if you're being dragged throught the shit, don't give up. Depression can cloud your judgement and make you unable to see through the storm. It may even make you just want to give up and kill yourself. But that's never the answer. Once you're dead, you're dead forever. You can't go back and fix it. Instead of killing yourself, hold on. I know it may seem futile, but grab onto whatever gives you strength and keep going. Just remember that <i>it does get better</i>.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-18089753002960372672010-10-11T19:54:00.001+13:002010-10-31T03:58:39.897+13:00Reading things make me angryI today saw both the names "Michael Laws" and "Paul Henry" in a tweet. In the interest of masochistic rigour, I clicked on the link to see if I could get my blood to boil. Why do I do this to myself?<br />
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It didn't take long - the fact that I'd already read the name "Michael Laws" helped out a lot there. The link led to his <a href="http://t.co/E6Gor5v">column</a> on the Radio Live website. Apologising to the Governor-General for controversial statements seems to be in vogue at the moment, so Laws jumped the bandwagon and apologised for calling Anand Satyanand fat:<br />
<blockquote style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Today I have engaged in discussions with RadioLIVE regarding my comments about the Governor General and his physique.</blockquote><blockquote style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">I apologise to the Governor General for comments which were, upon reflection, uncharitable and inappropriate.</blockquote>So, Laws called Satyanand fat. That's not really that offensive. Fatphobia is a bad thing and should be discouraged, but I can imagine Satyanand shrugging it off. Laws is just trying to remind everyone that he's offensive too, and that by apologising for this one act of insensitivity, he can claim that he cares and isn't all that bad.<br />
But he is. He's a racist homophobe, and he's worse than Henry. At least Henry could hold a logical debte when he wasn't laughing at lady-moustaches. Laws is just a dick.<br />
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I can't help but [cynically] notice that he refers to him only as "the Governor General," not once does he refer to him by his name. Is the name Anand Satyanand not 'New Zealand' enough? (Sorry, that's the domain of Henry)<br />
<blockquote style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">I reserve the right to be controversial and outspoken.</blockquote>Translation: I reserve the right to be a bigoted arsehole - freedom of speech and all that!<br />
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OK, so we all know that Laws is a dick (well, we should, by now). I won't keep flogging him - I found something else to be cynical about [<i>Emphasis mine</i>]:<b> </b><br />
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<span class="CommentText" id="dnn_ctr2037_CommentDisplay_rep_ctl00_comment">What the hell is wrong with this country...sorry but this is seriously a case of the Emperors New Clothes, sorry to state the obvious but the Governor General, not matter how holier than thou he is, is of Indian descent and hes FAT, regardless of whether he was born in NZ or not! And if you dont want English speaking nations to say your name as Dikshit, then spell it Dixit! <i><b>And if that makes me a racist, then I'm happy to wear that label</b></i></span></div><input class="agreeButton" id="dnn_ctr2037_CommentDisplay_rep_ctl00_13547.16658" name="dnn$ctr2037$CommentDisplay$rep$ctl00$13547.16658" onclick="this.value='Submitting...';this.disabled = true;__doPostBack('dnn$ctr2037$CommentDisplay$rep$ctl00$13547.16658','')" type="button" value="I Agree" /> (<span id="dnn_ctr2037_CommentDisplay_rep_ctl00_AgreeAmount">3</span>) <input class="DisagreeButton" id="dnn_ctr2037_CommentDisplay_rep_ctl00_Dis.13547.16658" name="dnn$ctr2037$CommentDisplay$rep$ctl00$Dis.13547.16658" onclick="this.value='Submitting...';this.disabled = true;__doPostBack('dnn$ctr2037$CommentDisplay$rep$ctl00$Dis.13547.16658','')" type="button" value=" I Disagree" /> (<span id="dnn_ctr2037_CommentDisplay_rep_ctl00_DisagreeAmount">0</span>)</blockquote>This was the first comment I saw on Laws' column. I could poke fun at 'Jane's' grammer, I could poke fun at her misplaced "Emperors New Clothes" analogy, but I won't. Firstly, at what point has Satyanand acted "holier than thou?" He's hardly said anything - it's the media and social commentators (myself included, granted) that been blustering about this.<br />
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Secondly, yes, it does make you racist, but <i>that's not something to be proud of</i>. Furthermore, at the time I read this post, 3 people 'agreed' with her. This is what is what "is wrong with this country." Not people being offended at offensive stuff, but the racist, bigoted sentiment that comes gushing to the surface when people like Laws and Henry get in trouble.<br />
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It's hard to think of New Zealand as being a bigoted nation, but the bigotry is there. What I can't comprehend is people defending it, and claiming it as their <i>right</i> to be bigots.<br />
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I should stop reading the internet, it makes me angry. Also, Jane, your grammer sucks and that "Emperors New Clothes" line makes no sense.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-62622429176553050232010-10-08T12:43:00.002+13:002010-10-31T04:00:40.971+13:00Do I give more face time to Paul Henry?The ship is fast sailing on this one, but the media keep plugging it, so I will too.<br />
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What I find interesting (though not at all surprising) about the whole Paul Henry thing, is the difference in reporting between the two networks. TVNZ (understandably) is only giving a minimal amount of information, focusing on his offending question surrounding whether Anand Satyanand was "even a New Zealander," and only focused on his joking about Sheila Dikshit's name once the controversy hit India. TV3, by contrast, played a sort of Paul Henry mega-mix whereby he laughed at a lady moustache and his mockery of Susan Boyle.<br />
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Both networks conspicuously leave out his comment that homosexuals are "unnatural."<br />
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There are two things that annoy me about this whole Henry debacle. First is the fact that people are defending him - some people joining ‘boycott TVNZ until Paul Henry returns’ groups on Facebook. They act (seemingly echoing TVNZ's sentiment) that it was a one-off incident, and wasn't really all that bad. The reason people are pissed off and want his blood, is because it's the latest in a long line of bigoted, arsehole statements that the veteran broadcaster has made - and, being racial, it's the one that's inflamed us all the most. He's not saying “what we're all thinking but afraid to say” (granted, TVNZ later retracted this statement). Most New Zealanders are not bigoted arseholes. Tough I would agree with the sentiment that we'd like to be able to “tell it like it is,” that has more to do with New Zealanders reprehension with complaining rather than any introverted intolerance.<br />
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Henry is a bigot and giving him free reign on <i>Breakfast</i> has exacerbated his bigotry. The argument that he's a good broadcaster and that he's fantastic at debating politicians, <i>et al</i>, does not warrant letting his offensive remarks slide.<br />
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The second thing that annoyed me about the whole thing is that TV3 interviewed radio shock-jocks John Tamihere and Willie Jackson. The pair admonished Henry's offensiveness, rightly pointing out that a government-owned network shouldn't employ openly racist presenters, while ignoring the hypocrisy of them making those comments. Jackson and (especially) Tamihere have received their fair share of complaints about their own offensive statements, but they defend their right to do it because their radio programme is privately owned, as if that makes it all OK.<br />
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Finally, I should pay lip service to the fact that many people are saying that we shouldn't be flogging this piece of non-news. While the media do have a tendency of over pushing pointless “news” items, I think people are more worried about giving Henry's words an ersatz legitimacy by talking about it.<br />
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I disagree, and think that we <i>should </i>be talking about it. The fact that he said it, and the fact that many people are rushing to his defense, shows that New Zealand is still a quietly bigoted country. While we have nothing of the sort we see proudly trumpeted from the parapets across America, we're not the paragon of tolerance and freedom that we tell ourselves we are. Racism, heterosexism, misogyny and other forms of discrimination all still exist in our society. <br />
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But does that mean that we need to keep harping on Paul Henry? He may be a bit of a media pariah at the moment, but he's fast becoming a patsy for bigotry in New Zealand. In stead of keeping on him, we need to honestly look at ourselves in the mirror, and actually have a conversation with ourselves to finally deal with the conservative bigotry lurking beneath our liberal façade. <br />
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[UPDATE: Paul Henry has resigned, lol]Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-49802718714915199262010-10-07T22:26:00.003+13:002010-11-08T22:26:52.896+13:00Straight Men are Lame and Insecure :)[This post was originally published in Critic - Te Arohi, p. 31, Issue 25,<i> 2010</i>] <br />
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"Why is it," I was asked, "that women get Women's Week? We don't get Men's Week." I also often hear "Gays get a 'Pride' Week, but I bet they wouldn't let us have a 'Straight Pride' Week." Instead of responding to things I don't like with vitriol, like I usually do, I thought I would offer a more elaborate rebuttal than just saying "Because you already have the other 50 weeks!" (OK, there's going to be a <i>little</i> vitriol in this).<br />
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As it turns out, straight men are insecure. For the last few decades, as Feminism and Queer Civil Rights really picked up steam, straight men have been having their stranglehold on society slowly, but forcibly, loosened. Straight men are still the dominant group in society, but their authority is being challenged, and that makes them insecure.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">If you're<i> so</i> insecure in your masculinity that you need a special week to fellate your ego, then by all means, have a Men's Week.</span><br />
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However, before you rush out and install a blow-off valve in your car or whatever it is that straight guys do, note this: Women's Week, Pride Week, Diversity Week, <i>et alia</i> are about dismantling stereotypes and misunderstandings, claiming a political voice and<i> challenging</i> the insecurities of wider society through visibility and supporting women, queers, and diverse ethnic groups by creating 'safe' spaces, both emotionally and physically, for a week.<br />
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The truth is, straight men<i> are </i>unfairly affected by sexism and expected to behave in certain ways. Men are expected to be REAL MEN™ - to be the epitome of logic and reason, yet resolve everything with violence; be humble, yet win every fight. They are expected to tend to a woman's 'needs', yet not give a shit about their feelings. They have to be good fathers, yet not invest any emotions in their children. They have to tread a fine line between stylish, yet looking messy. They can't possibly be mistaken for gay - even if they are. They have to enjoy watching and playing sport (personally, I'd rather watch grass grow with paint drying on it). They also absolutely have to have a penis - a big one; and be willing and able to prove it (though not really prove it, because that would be gay).<br />
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All of these things tie men up in awkward, contradictory, illogical knots. No wonder straight men feel confused and insecure - especially in a society that's also trying to pry a little of their power away for women and queers. If we are to have a Men's Week, then it has to dismantle the impossible expectations of 'straight' men in today's society.<br />
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A couple of year's ago, we [<a href="http://ousa.org.nz/">OUSA</a>] <i>did </i>have a Men's Week. It was lame. This year we had 'Manday'. Sport, violent video games, meat - this just reinforced the hyper-masculine stereotype. As a friend said, it was straight men saying "We have a voice too - and it's deep." While I agree that X-Box and barbecues are awesome, there's much more to being a man than this. If straight men are insecure about loosing their place in society, then it's not going to be helped by having Manday-esque circle-jerks where you high-five each other and tell yourselves how awesome you are. Instead, men should be told that they can still be REAL MEN™ <i>without</i> having to subscribe to the beer, tits, rugby, rally-cars, guns, explosions, steak, barbecue, sex, violence, car-maintenance, womanising, track-pants-wearing, hyper-masculine, bullshit stereotype that we keep getting sold.<br />
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In reality, most of the straight men in my life don't subscribe to this image. But time and time again this is the image we're sold, this is the contemporary archetype male that is hammered into us. In advertising, on TV and in print we're sold this lie over and over again. A common source of sitcom hijinks sees the blokish main character fall slightly outside this ridiculous norm or (more hilariously, apparently) be caught in some kind of 'gay panic' situation. Father's Day seems to have less to do with parenting and more to do with powertools, and don't get me started on department store Christmas catalogues' 'gifts for boys' sections. This is what we keep being sold in spite of the fact that most men are not like this at all.<br />
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Men, be they gay, straight, bi, queer, trans, or whatever, need to be sold the idea that they <i>don't</i> have to resolve everything with a fight; they <i>don't</i> have to win every argument; they <i>don't </i>have to be tall and 'rugged' and physically strong. They should be told that they <i>don't </i>need always to be ready to have sex with anyone (of the 'correct' gender); that they <i>are </i>allowed to date the 'fat chick'; that they <i>don't </i>have to be able to fix stuff or make lots of money, or hide their emotions. And most importantly (from my perspective) they need to know that being called 'gay' is<i> not</i> an insult. If a guy hits on you in a bar, <i>take the compliment</i> and politely decline, don't have a mini freak-out. These are issues that we must own collectively - not just those outside the norm, but everyone who comfortably sits in it too.<br />
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But if you'd still rather cling to your insecurities, then by all means, keep your Manday's and your rugby and your beer; just don't be baffled when you get no respect in return.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-39288638538193086902010-07-19T20:49:00.000+12:002010-07-19T20:49:27.734+12:00Downsize Your Exec - Destroy Minority Representation<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">OUSA is currently running a referendum to ask it's members if it should make a smaller, more efficient executive. But while this might be good for governance, it could be disastrous for minority groups at Otago University.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">The "Downsize Your Exec" question is to put in place the recommendations of the Governance Structure Review Working Party, which calls for the removal of most of the representational portfolios on the OUSA exec. This would mean the removal of the Queer Rep, as well as the Women's Rep, Maori Rep, Pacific Islands Rep and International Rep (Though Te Roopu Maori will delegate an officer </span><em><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">ex officio</span></em><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"> instead of the Maori Rep and the international students will be represented by one of the General Reps).</span><br />
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While, publicly, OUSA has been proactive on certain queer issues, historically, queer issues were often pushed to the sidelines. It was codified in their policies to be proactive on queer rights, but these rights were often put at the bottom of the list, and were neglected. By combining the Queer, Women's, Maori, Pacific Islands and International Reps back into the Welfare Officer, we're going to see the same thing happen again - it's too many disparate things for one officer to handle. Harriet's response is that the reps are being replaced by sub-committees, but this is similar to what already happened previously (and is from where UniQ originally sprung) and what OUSA already has the power to create.<br />
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Furthermore, the Welfare Sub-committee will be comprised (potentially, according to the Working Party Report) of a Maori Rep, Queer Rep, Women's Rep, Pacific Islands Rep, International Cultural Council Rep, Disabilities Rep, and a Postgrad Rep. Each of these different groups are equally important and deserve equal time and respect, but I think that it's utter folly for them to all be deliberating on each other's issues. The PI Rep cannot truly comprehend queer issues in the same way that I cannot truly comprehend women's issues - which is why these all need to be separate positions. By putting all of these different things into one sub-committee, we risk losing an effective voice through OUSA, as do Maori, PI, female students, et al.<br />
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Finally, the sub-committees are appointed by the Executive. There is absolutely no democratic recourse if we disagree with whom they appoint. If they appoint someone that, for example, we feel doesn't have the backing of the queer community, there's nothing we can do about it. They could even appoint a man as a women's rep - there's nothing in any of the proposed constitutional changes that guarantee that any appointed reps on the committee must actually represent the people they claim to. In fact there is nothing in the proposed constitutional changes that have anything to say about the appointment of the sub-committees.<br />
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I truly believe that we should strongly oppose the Governance Structure Review. It is anti-queer, it is anti-women, it is anti-diversity. I do believe that the working party is not being deliberately sinister or malicious and that they do have our best interests at heart, but I think that they are naïve. "Downsize your Exec?" will destroy our representation on OUSA and University councils - representation we fought tooth and nail for, and we should not sit idly by while that happens.<br />
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The structure that they are proposing isn't even established by the referendum: The constitutional amendments in the referendum question are only going to axe all of the representatives. The sub-committees have to be established in further policy. While OUSA says that this policy is already drafted and waiting for the results of the referendum, there is absolutely nothing binding them to passing it - and it could all change before it gets a chance to.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">So, those of you who actually read this, and of that subset those who are OUSA members, please vote NO in this referendum. The referendum is on the </span><a href="http://www.ousa.org.nz/events-and-recreation/referendum/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">OUSA website</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"> </span></div>Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-89304886741901095812010-03-13T21:31:00.001+13:002010-03-13T21:56:33.532+13:00What is the real intent of Voluntary Student Membership?There is a bill before Select Committee at the moment – the Education (Freedom of Association) Amendment Bill, sponsored by Roger Douglas of the ACT party - the same Roger Douglas who arseholed up the country in the 80's.<br />
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What ACT are trying to achieve, as laid out in the <a href="http://legislation.govt.nz/bill/member/2009/0075/latest/DLM2301301.html?search=ts_bill_education+freedom+of+association_noresel&p=1&sr=1">General Policy Statement</a> of the Bill and according to the Hansard’s account of the debates, is freedom for students and the destruction of corrupt organisations.<br />
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But the cynic in me tell me to be wary of the intent of politicians – particularly those to the right of centre.<br />
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‘Freedom of Association’ is proudly flaunted in the title of this insidious piece of legislation. Who could deny anyone freedom? Freedom is such a good thing and is always worth fighting for, right?<br />
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Apparently, our rights are being denied by Universal Student Membership. Those who don’t want to join or can’t afford to, are forced to anyway and spend their hard-earned money on the Students’ Association when they enrol at their chosen institution.<br />
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This argument rests on a logical fallacy: Student’s already have the option to opt out either for reasons of financial hardship or conscientious objection. Also, if at least 10% of the student body call for one, a binding referendum is held to determine whether the association becomes voluntary. The students can democratically call for Voluntary Student Membership (VSM). This isn’t happening.<br />
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But, implies Roger Douglas, democracy represents the tyranny of the majority, as the minority of students who want VSM don’t have a loud enough voice. Before dismantling this point, let me first let my inner cynic speak: since when have ACT given a shit about the rights of minorities – they were recently the <a href="http://www.parliament.nz/en-NZ/PB/Debates/Debates/4/4/3/49HansD_20091126_00001679-Crimes-Provocation-Repeal-Amendment-Bill.htm">only party to vote against</a> legislation that would see people who kill gays being convicted of murder; gays aren’t humans according to ACT.<br />
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The very construct of student associations gives those students who belong to minority groups a voice in their education and provides support structures for those who feel discriminated against. Queer students, Maori students, Pacific Island students. When VSM became law in Australia, the first things to go were the support for minorities. Women’s and queer spaces disappeared. With VSM, it’s the minorities who suffer the most; they lose the protection they fought hard for – and they did fight very hard for these protections.<br />
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On to corruption. <a href="http://www.parliament.nz/en-NZ/PB/Debates/Debates/9/5/a/49HansD_20090923_00001153-Education-Freedom-of-Association-Amendment.htm">In the debate</a>, both ACT candidates mention the amount of fraud and thievery of students’ money that go on in students’ associations – listing several examples. But one thing that the examples have in common (aside from being mostly at Vic.) is that they all represent people who were caught, tried and received convictions, not people who skived money away publicly as nobody battered an eyelid. Fraud exists here not due to anything inherent in the associations, but simply because they are run by people. People are, by and large corrupt. Corruption happens everywhere, from small businesses to the stock market and, most significantly, in banks and parliament. By the same argument, we should shut down everything that we humans run.<br />
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The difference between students’ associations and other organisations is that student associations are directly responsible to their constituents and must be completely transparent in their spending. Other organisations don’t. It was this transparency that enabled the students to hold the fraudsters to account and achieve conviction to be written into the public record for ACT to bitch about. The whole process is self correcting. Roger Douglas’ privatisation campaign in the 80’s, however, destroyed the transparency of many of the countries largest companies, filling them with more corruption than students’ associations can ever hope to hold.<br />
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So what is the real issue here? This is the part where I let my cynic fully out of his box. Traditionally, students represent everything ACT hate: intelligent, free-thinking, liberal, socially-minded, financially poor, young people who aren’t afraid to speak their minds and are deeply interested in politics. Students complain, students protest. Student’s across the word have been influential in every major push for human rights and civil liberties in the last century. From the emancipation of women, to the civil rights of blacks, to homosexual law reform, it’s been students at the forefront of the protests.<br />
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This bill is really about silencing ACTs loudest opponents. And what better way to silence your political opponents than by putting it behind the disguise of ‘Freedom.’Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-73477694431654999482010-01-11T00:18:00.013+13:002010-01-15T15:56:11.508+13:00Open letter to Mark BuckleIn the opinion pages of the Otago Daily Times last week - Friday 8<sup>th</sup> January, to be precise - I read an actual creationist piece in the paper. I thought this was a little silly, so I sent in a response. The original Opinion piece, written by Mark Buckle, is available to read <a href="http://bit.ly/8HG1Rs">here</a>.<br /><br />Here follows my as-yet-unpublished response:<br /><br /><div style="margin-left: 1em;font-family:times new roman;font-size:110%;">Mark Buckle wrote of the restoring power of ‘knowledge of the Creator’ (<span style="font-style: italic;">ODT</span>, 8.1.10). I would argue that this is certainly not the case – or at least that knowledge of the Creator (or <span style="font-style: italic;">any</span> creator for that matter) is not a necessity for creative restoration.<br /><br />First off, however, he opines that we're constantly being told new, conflicting knowledge about how to live. This is true, though it has a lot more to do with the sensationalised reporting of science in the media than the actual science – the anti-MMR vaccine hoax in Britain recently is proof of that (not that I think the media are deliberately being facetious, they often, like most of us, just don't know how to handle esoteric and complex scientific reports). However, this doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with the scientific knowledge itself.<br /><br />Also, we are immensely less afraid that our forebears. We (in the West, at least) are no longer afraid of vampires or zombies or goblins or any of the myriad demons and ghouls that ‘threatened’ us in the middle ages. While we still fear the dark, heights, fire, snakes and spiders and obvious things like death, having survived evolution by developing a mechanism to avoid such things, the things we fear that once lay hidden in the dark, have now, to borrow an analogy from Carl Sagan, have been revealed by the candle of science. Once we know them, we can deal with them rationally. Those who say that our fears have been ‘amplified by our heightened knowledge’ have it wrong: knowledge doesn't lead to greater fear – that fear is constructed by those who oppose knowledge.<br /><br />Knowing all this ‘stuff’ has brought us closer to life's fundamental needs, because we in the secular, liberal west, have realised that, fundamentally, people need to eat right, have fun and be nice to each other. That's it. We don't need someone telling us that our knowledge is wrong or indeed that our lifestyles are wrong or immoral. We fundamentally need the freedoms granted to us by our advancements through science. To quote comedian Tim Minchin: ‘Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed; faith is the denial of observation so that belief can be preserved.’<br />He goes on: ‘Life is full of mysteries, yeah, but there are answers out there and they won't be found by people sitting around looking serious and saying, “Isn't life mysterious? Let's sit here and hope.”’ [Seriously, go look up his <i>Storm</i> on YouTube.]<br /><br />But what really boggled my mind about the opinion piece of Friday the 8th, was that half of it was devoted to creationism, an hypothesis that has so thoroughly been debunked to be barely worth it. The <span style="font-style: italic;">fact </span>of evolution by natural selection is so irrefutable, that even the pope supports it (and he doesn't support a lot of things that he should). Our DNA does not hold evidence of our unique identity, rather it is proof of the interrelatedness of all living things on Earth. To me, the knowledge that I share 50% of the DNA code with a banana is more beautiful and powerful than anything offered by any religion that I have yet come across.<br /><br />David Attenborough observed it best when he said of those who see beauty in ‘creative design,’ that those people always mean sunsets and flowers, and not the little worm that can only make it's existence by burrowing through the cornea of a starving child in Africa – where is the benevolence in that? I will say no more on evolution, except to point you to a far better argument than any I could conceive: Richard Dawkin's latest book <span style="font-style: italic;">The Greatest Show on Earth</span>. If you read it sincerely and honestly, and don't just skip to the bits that offend your intelligence, you'll find it very persuasive.<br />To quote Tim Minchin again: ‘Isn't this enough? Just this... world? Just this, beautiful, complex, wonderfully unfathomable, natural world? How does it so fail to hold our attention that we have to diminish it with the invention of cheap, man-made myths and monsters?’<br /><br />To elaborate on what I wrote above, those that tell us that greater knowledge brings us greater fear are merely trying to hide the fact that it is this greater knowledge that they themselves are afraid of. To quote an oft-quoted paragraph from Carl Sagan: ‘How is it that hardly any major religion has looked at science and concluded, “This is better than we thought! The Universe is much bigger than our prophets said, grander, more subtle, more elegant”? Instead the say, “No, no, no! My god is a little god, and I want him to stay that way.” A religion, old or new, the stressed the magnificence of the Universe as revealed by modern science might be able to draw forth reserves of reverence and awe hardly tapped by the conventional faiths.’<br /><br />To say that ‘True faith ... relies on a reason of greater comprehension than our own’ serves the dual purposes of being illogical, metaphysical garbage and of also being designed to be non-arguable. If the countless people from various cultures and religions have taught you that faith in Jesus Christ is revolutionary and removes fear, are you selectively ignoring those of the Muslim faith who have the same kind of faith in the words of the prophet Muhammed, or of the Jews or Hindus? Or Atheists? Or have you never really known any of them, only assumed that they must be unfulfilled and incomplete based on your own biases, ignorance and bigotry? I realised a long time ago that belief in Jesus Christ only superficially removes fear, and when I discovered that religion is design (not deliberately, mind you) to instill fear so as to control people, I got away from it as fast as I could.<br /><br />True change comes from being free of mental controls, from being free from accusations of thought crimes. To be able to think and express oneself freely, regardless of one's belief's is true freedom. We only have one life – only one that you can empirically or logically prove – and the brevity of this life makes it all the more worth living.<br /><br />One final quote from Minchin: ‘If perchance I have offended, think of this and all is mended: we'd as well be 10 minutes back in time, for all the chance you'll change your mind.’</div><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">This has not yet been published yet (15.1.10) and I don't expect it to - not in the ODT at least. I can see them wringing their hands over all the apparent offences in this piece. But I'd like to point out one further thing.<br /><br />Mark Buckle is a pastor at Fernhill Church in Dunedin and it appears that he has in the past delivered the opening prayer at the council meetings. He's written a few opinion pieces in the ODT and they all seem quite similar - he doesn't have a clue what he's on about - even misquoting Karl Marx (the famous "opiate of the people" line which is very easy to check that you've got it right these days. It's nice to think we could just ignore him and his ilk, but we can't. This sort of thinking is muddying the waters that we're trying to clear.<br /><br />At worst, it's dangerous thinking that sets people against one another. At best, it's offensive to those of us who don't share his belief and don't like being told that we're non-creative sinners.<br /></span>Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-37995284943893224402009-12-18T11:20:00.006+13:002010-10-31T03:58:02.922+13:00'Probably' No God?So, the<a href="http://www.nogod.org.nz/"> Atheist Bus Campaign</a> has come to New Zealand. Once again, the promoters are being asked why the 'probably' is in the phrase.<br />
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While it would be nice - and the promoters all 'probably' believe so - to say "There is <span style="font-style: italic;">definitely</span> no God," this runs into two issues. The first is that the 'probably' softens the blow to those not so keen on blasphemy. While I personally think that, regardless of what you believe, it is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">everyone's</span> moral imperative to blaspheme - if only because we're told not to - blasphemy isn't <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">everyone's</span> cup of tea, so it's probably best to avoid it (even if you're only <span style="font-style: italic;">technically</span> avoiding it).<br />
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However, given that people are going to be offended by these adverts anyway, this is a relatively minor reason.<br />
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The real reason for its existence, is that to exclude the 'probably' would be to lose scientific integrity. The question of God's existence is one that is insoluble. There is no way that you can prove that He exists, but neither can you prove a negative. This might sound a little more agnostic than atheistic, but it's not - it's an appeal to the rigours of logic. An Agnostic Bus Campaign would read more like "There's no way of knowing if there is a God or not." It's more scientifically accurate, but less to the point. Agnostics might like it, but probably won't put it on a bus. (Well, after the success of the Atheist campaign, they might...)<br />
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The atheist, like the agnostic, prefers to use the term 'probably,' but unlike the agnostic makes a point of saying that for all intents and purposes, we might as well say there is no God - for the same reason that we say that there are no faeries, no zombies, no unicorns, vampires, Thor, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Quezacotl</span>, Wotan, Zeus, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Reptiods</span> or any other mythological things. Strictly speaking, we must be <span style="font-style: italic;">agnostic</span> to all these things (for you can never prove they don't exist), but we don't. I'm as much an <span style="font-style: italic;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">aunicornist</span> </span>as the next person. But, ask a scientist (when they are in scientist mode, that is - not when on their coffee break) and they will say "there are <span style="font-style: italic;">probably</span> no vampires," but that doesn't mean we need to start funding vampire hunters.<br />
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Of course, that's just my opinion. The great thing about Atheism is that every individual atheist is welcome to make their own minds up about what the word means to them and how to interpret it. I personally feel that agnosticism is a weak form of atheism and doesn't really say what you believe while tempering the wrath of the religious (in some places in the world, this is an important thing to do). But Michael <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Shermer</span> thinks otherwise, as he pointed out in his book <i>How We Believe: The Search for God in an Age of Science.</i> He proudly uses the term 'agnostic' and he's entirely at liberty to disagree with me. That's why I love the English language - it's so vague and malleable (many people see this as a hindrance, but I don't).<br />
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So that little three syllable word continues to cause a bit of discussion, but that is the whole point in the campaign - to open discussion about the nature of the question of God's existence and how we let that question rule our lives. We mustn't hide our ignorance behind the veiled charge of 'blasphemy.'Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-14162467613298224192009-12-16T23:22:00.006+13:002010-01-15T15:23:16.457+13:00Rapture Imminent!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB7nC-hOek_UGhzXckShMG1tB7mrVadj_aD2cn4dgshqTtqjgbw20L_qGgjYh9sc6OyqWwPNR38_Fmgqkxx8CUCIBkXNRvgc4-RkyzRKN-CDX1SC_FCrBpeBzUuGSl3c-U6s3Hp-zPxZg/s1600-h/world-end.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 99px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB7nC-hOek_UGhzXckShMG1tB7mrVadj_aD2cn4dgshqTtqjgbw20L_qGgjYh9sc6OyqWwPNR38_Fmgqkxx8CUCIBkXNRvgc4-RkyzRKN-CDX1SC_FCrBpeBzUuGSl3c-U6s3Hp-zPxZg/s400/world-end.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5415778311889471730" border="0" /></a><br />Found this <a href="http://home.flash.net/%7Eevt/rapture.htm">here</a> (don't go there: too much crazy, not enough layout).<br /><br />Hmm, that's interesting. Just the other day it said:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjed5PUWjLDCm1lP3yCj9jj0C-CbDNq6kWU3Res0kMokrVGA3MHF24AqekT9PxhUUVqSHamgsjgX4dkR5dkCv6HCY6oUdIov2eO1HV55nVdSbYNCVxIN0uNLnqSI0CrqZNvhSwWqnQSxAU/s1600-h/rapture.jpeg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 113px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjed5PUWjLDCm1lP3yCj9jj0C-CbDNq6kWU3Res0kMokrVGA3MHF24AqekT9PxhUUVqSHamgsjgX4dkR5dkCv6HCY6oUdIov2eO1HV55nVdSbYNCVxIN0uNLnqSI0CrqZNvhSwWqnQSxAU/s320/rapture.jpeg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5415777978926492562" border="0" /></a><br />Should I keep an eye on it to see if we all die on the 21st?<br /><br />No.<br /><br />[UPDATE, 22<sup>nd</sup> Dec 2009 - 6:44 am CST: Unfortunately, we're still here...]<br /><br />[UPDATE, 15<sup>th</sup> Jan 2010: I think they keep moving the goal posts...]<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiW-3hqZeWWwwvyg2Yw5Xheu8IcDxsabTe91BChx0ruREsBek73ly8sCCLy-fcQz8uKoMznkPdxndlxKW8SR66x92iuUf9D8khfFXFaXtwcU9WOEUdn0o-xv6-N26u0rZd6zADQuKKSczo/s1600-h/rappy.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 102px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiW-3hqZeWWwwvyg2Yw5Xheu8IcDxsabTe91BChx0ruREsBek73ly8sCCLy-fcQz8uKoMznkPdxndlxKW8SR66x92iuUf9D8khfFXFaXtwcU9WOEUdn0o-xv6-N26u0rZd6zADQuKKSczo/s400/rappy.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5426782766991100530" border="0" /></a>Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-36893635467257328042009-12-15T14:07:00.010+13:002010-10-31T03:59:01.680+13:00Why are people opposed to Wind Farms?Personally I find them awesome. Meridian Energy is trying to build a farm in Central Otago, NZ, has been for years. <a href="http://www.odt.co.nz/the-regions/central-otago/78879/otago039s-first-wind-power-week">Recently</a> they managed to put a few up, but it took them a long time. There was a lot of pressure from local groups - mainly headed by artists - to prevent them from being built. Their arguments against wind farms fall into four categories:<br />
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They're noisy, They kill birds, they're not "green" and they look ugly.<br />
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Noisy? Well, to be truthful, yes, they are noisy. But they're also typically built, like most power-plants, away from residential zones. In Europe and the US, you can find them built close to homes, but this <a href="http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20427383.100-wind-farms-dont-affect-property-prices.html">doesn't affect property prices</a>, which suggests to me that the noise isn't that much of a factor.<br />
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Do you know what else is noisy? Roads, highways, railway lines. These things already exist and are far noisier than wind turbines. Also, modern turbines are designed to minimise noise.<br />
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The wind farms in New Zealand are being built and are planned to be built away from residential zones - in the middle of Central Otago. They are near large sheep stations and other farms, not near houses.<br />
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So noise isn't a problem.<br />
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As for killing birds, yes, wind turbines kill birds. But, do you know what? So do buildings. Birds die by flying into buildings. Read that a few more times to make sure it sinks in. Birds die by flying into buildings. Not thrown into buildings. The buildings don't jump out and get them. They fly into large, stationary, obvious buildings. Migrating birds have been shown to <a href="http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg18625045.500-wind-turbines-a-breeze-for-migrating-birds.html">avoid turbines</a> and there are other ways of making them safe for birds, such as putting coloured bars or lights on the blades or using high-pitched noise to scare the birds away. If birds are going to be killed by flying into things, then I expect evolution to provide us with smarter birds.<br />
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So, birds aren't a problem.<br />
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As for being "green," the argument is over the pollutants involved in manufacturing the turbines. I hardly think that this is an issue considering that wind turbine production is a minor part in a larger industrial climate. Car manufacturing, computers and a whole host of other things are far worse. These industrial techniques, materials and pollutants already exist. I don't think that "wind power–dominated countries will be left with millions of tons of scrap metal which cannot be recycled" - this is a massive overstatement and we already have millions of tons of scrap metal to deal with. And we do deal with it. The other methods of generating power - coal, gas, nuclear, etc., have far worse pollutants than anything wind turbines will ever put out.<br />
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So pollution is far from being a problem<br />
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The only remaining complaint is that they look ugly. This is not an argument. This is just stupid. When I'm a multi-billionaire, I'm going to buy all the property next to the artists and others who oppose wind farms, and I'm going to build coal plants with large smoke stacks on them - right next to where they live. Will they think that's a nicer alternative?<br />
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Wind farms look cool. I want one. As I made the point above, nobody lives there (in NZ at least) and the visual impact is minimal.<br />
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We need to generate more energy - our population is growing. There are a number of ways to do this. Coal, Gas, Nuclear, Solar, Wind, Hydro and Tidal. We are trying to get as far away form coal and gas as possible, solar takes too much space to be viable in a country like New Zealand (too low solar irradiance), tidal is still in it's infancy (and you'll get the same people arguing against that for the same reasons - except that tidal generators need to be closer to populated areas, so we have Nuclear and Wind as the green alternatives. <br />
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Nuclear is green only in the short term - at the moment, climate change is a big enough threat to justify the nuclear waste produced, but it's something we'll have to deal with in the future. Nuclear power is also something that New Zealand can <span style="font-style: italic;">never</span> use. We fought so hard to get ban it.<br />
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Hydro uses a phenomenal amount of land and the rotting plants they cover produce methane - when they flood forests, they can release more effective carbon than an equivalent coal plant - kW for kW.<br />
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So the only option left is wind. It's clean, there's plenty of it in NZ and it looks awesome. And if Graham Sydney doesn't like it, he can just paint over them. Seriously, you're an artist, not an expert on energy and the environment. Being a successful artist doesn't mean your opinion warrants any merit.<br />
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OK, so I've glossed over a few things and cherry-picked my data a little, but wind turbines are just great. They're awesome machines and they look cool. I think we should build heaps of them - Mt Sunday (where they filmed 'Edoras' in the <span style="font-style: italic;">Lord of the Rings</span>) would be the perfect place for a farm; the wind there apparently averages about 150 km/h.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-81152152378673837762009-12-11T11:35:00.003+13:002009-12-11T12:45:05.806+13:00Is it just me, or is Christmas coming up?Apparently it's Christmas. I can tell by the carols and songs blaring like sugary Muzak in the malls along with all the hideous decorations throughout town and all through the shops. If rate-payers are going to pay for civic Christmas decorations, they should at least get new ones every year, not pull out the same, dirty, 20 year old baubles and tinsely crap and hang them over our streets.<br /><br />Now I may be a bit of a humbug - a few years working at Burger King (even part-time) is enough to make anyone a cynic, but add to that the fact that the BK I worked at is in a mall with the same 10 Christmas songs on infinite loop blaring inescapably in all corners of the mall throughout all of December and half of November and the season quickly starts to grate.<br /><br />I refuse to listen to the radio during the Christmas season in order to maintain my daily dose of<span style="font-style: italic;"> not</span> listening to Snoopy's Christmas - which I would sooner be water-boarded than listen to again.<br /><br />Yes, I hate Christmas. The annoying decorations, the music - especially how everyone has to put out a Christmas album - the sales, advertising and shopping rush, the TV shows telling you how to make the lunch easier to cook, American sitcoms that have some horrible accident happen on Christmas Eve but everything comes right by midnight then the church-bells ring and it starts snowing as if it's a miracle that Christmas <span style="font-style: italic;">actually happens</span> and that it's even more miraculous for it to snow <span style="font-style: italic;">in winter</span> and so on and so on (that might be more indicative of my disdain for sitcoms). Don't get me wrong: I love giving and receiving presents - it's just annoying to have to do it for everyone, all at once.<br /><br />Now, I'm not saying that we should stop celebrating Christmas and I'm certainly not saying that it shouldn't be a holiday, I'd just like a nice, quiet Christmas, free from all the carols, decorations and TV specials. No hassles like complicated dinners and making sure the Tree looks right. (Seriously, the Tree is the tradition I am equally most puzzled about and most annoyed by - "Let's stick a tree inside and vomit baubles and tinsel on it and cover it in lights!" Utter nonsense.)<br /><br />I'm an atheist, so I don't believe in all the Jesus stuff, but I don't want to cancel Christmas - we need statutory holidays - both so we can get a day off or can get paid time-and-a-half if we choose to work - and we might as well stick with the holidays that already exist - they're arbitrary anyway. Christmas, Easter, Labour day, Waitangi day or the equivalent in whatever country you're from and others. Christmas was the celebration of Midwinter - celebrating that the sun was now moving north in the sky (relative to pagans, not the solar system) and spring was on it's way. We have summer in New Zealand over Christmas, but by the time the colonists came to the Antipodes, it had become synonymous with the birth of Christ, so we were stuck with December 25th.<br /><br />So, it's a nice excuse to take a day off, spend time with your family (or your cat if you're alone) and exchange gifts. But do we really need a special day for Peace on Earth and Goodwill to All Men (and, I suppose, Women too)? Why do we need to be told to be nice to everyone? I like to think I'm nice to everyone regardless of what day it is. If we set one day aside for being nice, does that mean we get to be arseholes for the rest of the year? Do we hate our family for the whole year? And if we do, why must we pretend to like each other on Christmas?<br /><br />Maybe I'd like it more if it was balanced. I propose another holiday on June 25th. Anti-Christmas. Where we're all rude to each other, we don't have fancy dinners, prices go up, all radio stations play death metal, and we make sure <span style="font-style: italic;">not</span> to give any presents to anyone, but instead tell everyone what we truly thought of their presents at Christmas. There will be a moratorium on wrapping paper. We can't kill the baby Jesus, because Easter already takes care of that, but we can at least be bitter.<br /><br />So a merry arbitrary holiday and a happy new Gregorian cycle.Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-17744163301597156462009-12-01T12:50:00.006+13:002010-10-31T03:59:48.704+13:00I don't like TV PsychicsOnce a week, on New Zealand magazine TV program Good Morning, psychic Sue Nicholson appears with a handful of emails to perform 'readings' for various viewers. 'Perform' is the key word here, because it is my opinion that she is merely performing and it is my opinion on her <span style="font-style: italic;">performance</span> that I give here<br />
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Yesterday morning, she annoyed me. It doesn't take much for a charlatan to annoy me, but she was particularly annoying in this instance.<br />
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One caller (they're actually called by the station after they email in all their details) was told that her late niece was born just so that she could make the family happy for 16 years then die. In her defense she was trying to say that the family should celebrate the time they had with her, instead of mourning her passing, but it seemed quite insulting to the dead girl that she should be regarded as a thing for the enjoyment of the family, to die once her usefulness was fulfilled.<br />
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Maybe I'm reading between the lines here. It's something I like to think I avoid, but always end up doing, so I'll be a bit more careful.<br />
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A later caller had a relative who had committed suicide and was desperate to contact her. In what was an (I'm sure in the psychic's mind, a noble) attempt at stopping the bereaved woman from blaming herself, Nicholson told her that there was nothing she could do and, after telling her that it's harder for suicide victims (I use the term 'victim' very deliberately) to "cross over," but it's OK, because she has.<br />
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But what might seem an innocuous attempt at convincing a grieving lady to not blame herself, Nicholson actually told her that when someone is suicidal, they are in a very dark place and you cannot reach them. This set off my bullshit alarm.<br />
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She reiterated this about 2 times: When someone is suicidal, there is nothing you can do about it. That's not reading between the lines; that's effectively what she said.<br />
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As someone who has been suicidal and knows several others who are, this is the last thing that people need to be told. New Zealand is a country with high suicide rates. We've been dropping since the late 1990s, when major public health campaigns to remove the stigma and myth surrounding mental illness began. Statements like Nicholsons are false and damaging. Suicidal people<span style="font-style: italic;"> can</span> be reached and<span style="font-style: italic;"> need</span> to be reached. And to spout on about them being cloaked in some sort of impenetrable cloak of dark spirits is archaic and dangerous. It flys in the face of the last century of psychiatry and earlier forms of care tracing back to medieval Islamic states. Depressed people are <span style="font-style: italic;">not</span> possessed by demons and they <span style="font-style: italic;">can</span> be helped.<br />
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That's not to say that I'm blaming the family for not acting; far from it. Suicidal depression often goes undetected by family and many people feel powerless against it. Even psychiatrists struggle to help those with the illness - without hospitalization, it's next to impossible to make sure people are taking their medication. The reality is that without educating the wider public about the symptoms and realities of living with and treating depression, it is very hard to do anything. The families affected by suicide - and I've seen it rip families apart - would be better off told this, than by saying that suicidal people can't be helped. If we blame the disease, we'll be more active in trying to combat it, than fighting intangible spirits.<br />
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This is where psychic mediums move from being sideshow curiosities to being dangerous. When charlatans are given authority to speak on things they know nothing about and are propping up their own careers on the memories of the dead they become dangerous.<br />
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If she has some insights into how depression works, maybe she should write a paper and submit for peer review, but I don't think that she'll be doing that. She knows full well that it won't stand up to scrutiny. She knows full well that she'll be laughed out of every university and every scientific journal. She knows full well, that she's talking out of her arse to float her career on the pillaged memories of deceased loved ones - she might as well urinate on their graves.<br />
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I said before that it's a performance. I sincerely believe that it is. Otherwise, instead of giving 'readings' on television, she would be in the psychiatric hospitals, chasing away all those dark spirits.<br />
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... Do you get the impression that I don't like TV Psychics?Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-36553504982755246492009-11-28T19:21:00.003+13:002009-11-28T19:23:20.425+13:00<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>This man is going to sue me if I publish his photo:<div><br /><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEix6zpBjW2Exm08GpxH9z2K2MgWgDUD0uvXy2oCc8jhzBQYQyy2vDiDseNTIVKB27oVlZErD8dhCEND4wumyKqNPk_izjtI4td4DFJEzEX1PWz6dZDaYYdB45GWBv6Zjj3uqN7LuVQIpBQ/s320/FunPolice.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 243px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5409035935544286290" /></div><div><br /></div><div>... so I'd better not do that. That would just be asking for trouble.</div></div>Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3837836716792708872.post-4809960311973021842009-11-27T15:28:00.003+13:002009-11-27T15:40:11.973+13:00Hello. Mr Wainscotting here. <div><br /></div><div>I thought I'd try my hand at blogging, since I seem to care a lot about stuff and want a space where I can pretend I'm making a difference. So this is it.<div><br /></div><div>Readers will soon pick up on my liberal bent, my skepticism, and the fact that I regard politicians fair game. </div><div><br /></div><div>So sit back and enjoy the ride that is my blog.</div></div>Mr Wainscottinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102026831106372421noreply@blogger.com